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Surrogacy is complex, but getting answers shouldn't be. Get straight facts about compensation, matching, and legal protections by choosing your path below.
Surrogacy is complex, but getting answers shouldn't be. Get straight facts about compensation, matching, and legal protections by choosing your path below.
Surrogate FAQs
The Surrogacy Process
What is the difference between Gestational Surrogacy and Traditional Surrogacy?
The main difference lies in genetics.
In Gestational Surrogacy (the only type Nurtured Path facilitates), the surrogate has no genetic link to the baby; she carries an embryo created via IVF using the Intended Parents' or donors' genetic material.
Traditional Surrogacy involves the surrogate using her own egg, meaning she is biologically related to the child. For legal and emotional clarity, our program focuses exclusively on gestational carriers.
How do I start the application process?
Getting started is simple. You can complete our initial online application in about 10 minutes. Once submitted, our team will review your details and reach out within 24 hours to discuss the next steps.
Why should I work with an agency instead of doing it independently?
An agency acts as your safety net and project manager. Independent surrogacy requires you to manage your own legal contracts, payment schedules, and medical coordination, which can be overwhelming. At Nurtured Path, we handle every logistical detail—from screening and matching to legal representation and counseling—so you can focus entirely on a healthy pregnancy while we handle any challenges that arise.
I submitted my application. What happens next?
After we receive your application, we will contact you within 1–2 business days. If you meet the initial criteria, you will get access to our secure Surrogate Portal. Here, you will complete the necessary intake forms, including your medical history, insurance details, and matching preferences. Once our team has reviewed your records, we will schedule a comprehensive screening call for you and your support person.
What happens during the social work screening call?
This call is a two-way conversation designed to educate and assess. A licensed social worker from our team will walk you through the journey, covering the IVF process, compensation, and legal steps. It is also your chance to ask any questions you have. On our end, we will discuss your motivation for becoming a surrogate and evaluate your emotional readiness and support system. Please note that your primary support person (partner or spouse) will also participate in this screening.
What is the difference between Gestational Surrogacy and Traditional Surrogacy?
The main difference lies in genetics.
In Gestational Surrogacy (the only type Nurtured Path facilitates), the surrogate has no genetic link to the baby; she carries an embryo created via IVF using the Intended Parents' or donors' genetic material.
Traditional Surrogacy involves the surrogate using her own egg, meaning she is biologically related to the child. For legal and emotional clarity, our program focuses exclusively on gestational carriers.
How do I start the application process?
Getting started is simple. You can complete our initial online application in about 10 minutes. Once submitted, our team will review your details and reach out within 24 hours to discuss the next steps.
Why should I work with an agency instead of doing it independently?
An agency acts as your safety net and project manager. Independent surrogacy requires you to manage your own legal contracts, payment schedules, and medical coordination, which can be overwhelming. At Nurtured Path, we handle every logistical detail—from screening and matching to legal representation and counseling—so you can focus entirely on a healthy pregnancy while we handle any challenges that arise.
I submitted my application. What happens next?
After we receive your application, we will contact you within 1–2 business days. If you meet the initial criteria, you will get access to our secure Surrogate Portal. Here, you will complete the necessary intake forms, including your medical history, insurance details, and matching preferences. Once our team has reviewed your records, we will schedule a comprehensive screening call for you and your support person.
What happens during the social work screening call?
This call is a two-way conversation designed to educate and assess. A licensed social worker from our team will walk you through the journey, covering the IVF process, compensation, and legal steps. It is also your chance to ask any questions you have. On our end, we will discuss your motivation for becoming a surrogate and evaluate your emotional readiness and support system. Please note that your primary support person (partner or spouse) will also participate in this screening.
Surrogate Requirements
What are the main requirements to become a surrogate with Nurtured Path?
To ensure a safe journey for both you and the baby, we follow strict guidelines set by medical professionals and legal experts. While you can view our full list of requirements here, the core qualifications include:
Motherhood: You are currently raising at least one child you gave birth to.
Age & Health: You are between 21 and 42 years old with a healthy BMI (typically 18–32).
Lifestyle: You have a stable, drug-free, and smoke-free lifestyle with a reliable support system.
Financial Independence: You are not currently receiving government cash assistance or housing support (Section 8).
Location: You live in a surrogacy-friendly U.S. state (we currently cannot accept applicants from Nebraska, Louisiana, or Michigan).
I receive government assistance. Am I still eligible?
It depends on the type of assistance. We cannot accept applicants receiving cash aid (welfare), public housing, or Section 8. This rule protects you—surrogacy compensation can often disqualify you from these income-based programs, which could put your family’s housing or financial security at risk. However, other forms of aid (like food stamps/SNAP or subsidized childcare) are reviewed on a case-by-case basis.
Why is there a BMI requirement?
This standard is set by the IVF clinics we partner with, not just our agency. Fertility specialists require a specific BMI range because it significantly impacts how your body processes fertility medications and responds to the embryo transfer. Adhering to these limits ensures the highest possible chance of a successful pregnancy and minimizes medical risks for you.
What are the main requirements to become a surrogate with Nurtured Path?
To ensure a safe journey for both you and the baby, we follow strict guidelines set by medical professionals and legal experts. While you can view our full list of requirements here, the core qualifications include:
Motherhood: You are currently raising at least one child you gave birth to.
Age & Health: You are between 21 and 42 years old with a healthy BMI (typically 18–32).
Lifestyle: You have a stable, drug-free, and smoke-free lifestyle with a reliable support system.
Financial Independence: You are not currently receiving government cash assistance or housing support (Section 8).
Location: You live in a surrogacy-friendly U.S. state (we currently cannot accept applicants from Nebraska, Louisiana, or Michigan).
I receive government assistance. Am I still eligible?
It depends on the type of assistance. We cannot accept applicants receiving cash aid (welfare), public housing, or Section 8. This rule protects you—surrogacy compensation can often disqualify you from these income-based programs, which could put your family’s housing or financial security at risk. However, other forms of aid (like food stamps/SNAP or subsidized childcare) are reviewed on a case-by-case basis.
Why is there a BMI requirement?
This standard is set by the IVF clinics we partner with, not just our agency. Fertility specialists require a specific BMI range because it significantly impacts how your body processes fertility medications and responds to the embryo transfer. Adhering to these limits ensures the highest possible chance of a successful pregnancy and minimizes medical risks for you.
Lifestyle & Medical Questions
I am currently breastfeeding. Can I still apply?
Yes, you are welcome to apply and begin the screening process while breastfeeding! However, you will need to completely wean before starting any fertility medications to ensure your hormone levels are ready for the IVF process. We can work with you to create a timeline that fits your weaning schedule.
How soon after my last delivery can I become a surrogate?
To give your body adequate time to heal and recover, we follow standard medical guidelines: we can begin the process 3 months after a vaginal delivery or 6 months after a C-section.
Will I need to travel during the process? A
Likely, yes. While your local monitoring appointments (blood work and ultrasounds) happen at a clinic near your home, you will need to travel to the Intended Parents' IVF clinic for the actual embryo transfer. This is typically a 3–5 day trip. All travel costs for you and a companion are fully covered.
My partner isn’t fully on board. Can I still proceed?
Surrogacy is a commitment that affects your entire household, so having the full support of your spouse or partner is a requirement for our program. They will actually participate in the screening process with you! If you are single, we require that you have a reliable support person (friend or family member) committed to being by your side.
I don’t believe in termination/abortion. Can I still be matched?
We respect that this is a deeply personal topic. However, most Intended Parents require the legal option to make medical decisions for their future child in the event of severe fetal abnormalities. We match surrogates and parents based on shared values; if you are strictly opposed to termination, please discuss this with us early so we can determine if a suitable match is available.
What if I have a history of depression or anxiety?
We review every applicant on a case-by-case basis. However, to protect your mental health, we generally cannot accept applicants who required medication for Postpartum Depression (PPD) after their most recent pregnancy. If you have a history of general anxiety or depression (unrelated to PPD) and are not currently on medication, our medical team will review your records to determine eligibility.
Can I act as a surrogate for the baby I am currently pregnant with?
No. Gestational surrogacy involves carrying an embryo created via IVF that is not genetically related to you. If you are currently pregnant and seeking a placement for the child, we recommend contacting a local adoption agency or attorney.
Can I choose my own OB-GYN?
Yes! You typically select your own OB-GYN or midwife for your prenatal care, provided they accept the insurance plan being used. If you choose a midwife, they generally must work under the supervision of an OB. If you are carrying twins, you may be required to see a specialist (Maternal-Fetal Medicine) for extra precaution.
Will the pregnancy feel physically different because it’s not my baby?
Physiologically, your body nurtures a surrogate pregnancy exactly the same way it did your own children. Aside from the IVF medications used in the first trimester to support the pregnancy, the physical experience of carrying the baby is no different than a traditional pregnancy.
Do I have to abstain from sex?
Temporarily, yes. To maximize the chances of a successful implantation, clinics usually require pelvic rest (no intercourse) for approximately 2 weeks before and 2 weeks after the embryo transfer.
Does my blood type need to match the parents?
No. It is very common (and safe) for a surrogate to have a different blood type than the Intended Parents or the baby. Modern reproductive medicine manages blood type compatibility as a standard part of the process.
What about STIs?
Serious infections that carry a transmission risk to the fetus (such as HIV or Hepatitis B/C) are automatic disqualifiers. However, common conditions like HPV or HSV (Herpes) do not necessarily disqualify you, provided they are disclosed during screening and properly managed.
Can I request a single embryo transfer?
Absolutely. We want you to feel safe and comfortable. We will match you with Intended Parents who share your preference for a single embryo transfer (SET). You will never be forced to carry multiples if you are not comfortable doing so.
Is bed rest required after the transfer?
Protocols vary by clinic, but strict "medical bed rest" is rare these days. Most doctors recommend 24 to 48 hours of "modified bed rest" (relaxing at home/hotel) immediately following the transfer to help the embryo implant.
Do the IVF medications affect my mood?
They can. The hormones used to prepare your uterus are similar to those your body produces naturally, but in higher doses. It is normal to experience temporary side effects like bloating or mood swings (similar to PMS) during the weeks leading up to the transfer.
How do I know what fee to ask for?
You don’t need to guess or negotiate! Nurtured Path offers a standardized, high-value compensation package based on your location and experience level. Your coordinator will walk you through the full breakdown of your base pay and allowances during your screening.
I am currently breastfeeding. Can I still apply?
Yes, you are welcome to apply and begin the screening process while breastfeeding! However, you will need to completely wean before starting any fertility medications to ensure your hormone levels are ready for the IVF process. We can work with you to create a timeline that fits your weaning schedule.
How soon after my last delivery can I become a surrogate?
To give your body adequate time to heal and recover, we follow standard medical guidelines: we can begin the process 3 months after a vaginal delivery or 6 months after a C-section.
Will I need to travel during the process? A
Likely, yes. While your local monitoring appointments (blood work and ultrasounds) happen at a clinic near your home, you will need to travel to the Intended Parents' IVF clinic for the actual embryo transfer. This is typically a 3–5 day trip. All travel costs for you and a companion are fully covered.
My partner isn’t fully on board. Can I still proceed?
Surrogacy is a commitment that affects your entire household, so having the full support of your spouse or partner is a requirement for our program. They will actually participate in the screening process with you! If you are single, we require that you have a reliable support person (friend or family member) committed to being by your side.
I don’t believe in termination/abortion. Can I still be matched?
We respect that this is a deeply personal topic. However, most Intended Parents require the legal option to make medical decisions for their future child in the event of severe fetal abnormalities. We match surrogates and parents based on shared values; if you are strictly opposed to termination, please discuss this with us early so we can determine if a suitable match is available.
What if I have a history of depression or anxiety?
We review every applicant on a case-by-case basis. However, to protect your mental health, we generally cannot accept applicants who required medication for Postpartum Depression (PPD) after their most recent pregnancy. If you have a history of general anxiety or depression (unrelated to PPD) and are not currently on medication, our medical team will review your records to determine eligibility.
Can I act as a surrogate for the baby I am currently pregnant with?
No. Gestational surrogacy involves carrying an embryo created via IVF that is not genetically related to you. If you are currently pregnant and seeking a placement for the child, we recommend contacting a local adoption agency or attorney.
Can I choose my own OB-GYN?
Yes! You typically select your own OB-GYN or midwife for your prenatal care, provided they accept the insurance plan being used. If you choose a midwife, they generally must work under the supervision of an OB. If you are carrying twins, you may be required to see a specialist (Maternal-Fetal Medicine) for extra precaution.
Will the pregnancy feel physically different because it’s not my baby?
Physiologically, your body nurtures a surrogate pregnancy exactly the same way it did your own children. Aside from the IVF medications used in the first trimester to support the pregnancy, the physical experience of carrying the baby is no different than a traditional pregnancy.
Do I have to abstain from sex?
Temporarily, yes. To maximize the chances of a successful implantation, clinics usually require pelvic rest (no intercourse) for approximately 2 weeks before and 2 weeks after the embryo transfer.
Does my blood type need to match the parents?
No. It is very common (and safe) for a surrogate to have a different blood type than the Intended Parents or the baby. Modern reproductive medicine manages blood type compatibility as a standard part of the process.
What about STIs?
Serious infections that carry a transmission risk to the fetus (such as HIV or Hepatitis B/C) are automatic disqualifiers. However, common conditions like HPV or HSV (Herpes) do not necessarily disqualify you, provided they are disclosed during screening and properly managed.
Can I request a single embryo transfer?
Absolutely. We want you to feel safe and comfortable. We will match you with Intended Parents who share your preference for a single embryo transfer (SET). You will never be forced to carry multiples if you are not comfortable doing so.
Is bed rest required after the transfer?
Protocols vary by clinic, but strict "medical bed rest" is rare these days. Most doctors recommend 24 to 48 hours of "modified bed rest" (relaxing at home/hotel) immediately following the transfer to help the embryo implant.
Do the IVF medications affect my mood?
They can. The hormones used to prepare your uterus are similar to those your body produces naturally, but in higher doses. It is normal to experience temporary side effects like bloating or mood swings (similar to PMS) during the weeks leading up to the transfer.
How do I know what fee to ask for?
You don’t need to guess or negotiate! Nurtured Path offers a standardized, high-value compensation package based on your location and experience level. Your coordinator will walk you through the full breakdown of your base pay and allowances during your screening.
Matching & Intended Parents
Do I get a say in who I match with?
Absolutely. This is a partnership, and you must feel 100% comfortable with the people you are helping. We work with a wide variety of Intended Parents—married couples, single parents, LGBTQ+ partners, and international families. During your screening, we will discuss your preferences to ensure we only present profiles that align with your values and comfort level.
Who are the Intended Parents?
There is no "typical" profile! Our community is incredibly diverse. We represent Intended Parents from all over the world and from all walks of life. Approximately half of our families identify as LGBTQ+, and we work with a healthy mix of both domestic and international parents. Whether they are single individuals or married couples, they all share one thing: a deep desire to build a family.
Will I meet the parents before we officially match?
Yes. We believe in "mutual matching." Once we identify a potential fit, we facilitate a video call so you can interact face-to-face (virtually). This is your opportunity to gauge your chemistry and ensure the connection feels right before any legal agreements are signed. You will typically meet in person for the first time during the medical screening or the embryo transfer.
How much contact will we have during the pregnancy?
That is entirely up to you and the parents to decide. We encourage a minimum of one update per week to keep everyone connected, but many surrogates and parents speak much more frequently. Relationships often develop naturally—some stay strictly professional with email updates, while others become lifelong friends who text daily. We will help establish these expectations early on so everyone is on the same page.
What if the parents live in another country?
Working with international parents is a rewarding experience! While they cannot pop in for lunch, they are often incredibly dedicated and communicative via video chat. For the birth, international parents typically arrive in the U.S. weeks in advance to ensure they are present for the delivery.
Who covers the legal costs? Do I choose my own attorney?
Yes, you will have your own independent legal representation to review the contract and protect your interests. You are free to choose an attorney you trust, or we can recommend experienced reproductive law attorneys we have worked with before. Regardless of who you choose, the Intended Parents pay 100% of your legal fees.
What happens if the parents divorce during the pregnancy?
While this is highly unlikely, our legal contracts account for every scenario. In the event of a separation or divorce, the Intended Parents remain legally responsible for the child. You would never be responsible for custody or care of the baby.
Has a parent ever changed their mind and not taken the baby?
Never. Surrogacy is a long, expensive, and emotionally invested process; parents act out of a desperate desire to have a child, not a whim. Furthermore, legal contracts are in place prior to the embryo transfer that explicitly establish the Intended Parents as the legal guardians responsible for the child upon birth, regardless of circumstances.
What if there is a tragedy (e.g., stillbirth)?
In the heartbreaking event of a stillbirth or passing, the Intended Parents assume immediate custody and responsibility for all details/arrangements. You are never left to handle this burden alone.
Is childcare covered when I have appointments?
Yes. We understand that you have your own family to care for. Your compensation package includes allowances for childcare costs or lost wages to ensure your children are looked after while you attend medical screenings, the embryo transfer, or other surrogacy-related appointments.
How do the parents get on the birth certificate?
This depends on the laws of the state where you deliver. Our legal team ensures this is handled smoothly, typically through a "Pre-Birth Order" (a court ruling issued during the pregnancy) that instructs the hospital to place the Intended Parents' names directly on the original birth certificate.
Do I get a say in who I match with?
Absolutely. This is a partnership, and you must feel 100% comfortable with the people you are helping. We work with a wide variety of Intended Parents—married couples, single parents, LGBTQ+ partners, and international families. During your screening, we will discuss your preferences to ensure we only present profiles that align with your values and comfort level.
Who are the Intended Parents?
There is no "typical" profile! Our community is incredibly diverse. We represent Intended Parents from all over the world and from all walks of life. Approximately half of our families identify as LGBTQ+, and we work with a healthy mix of both domestic and international parents. Whether they are single individuals or married couples, they all share one thing: a deep desire to build a family.
Will I meet the parents before we officially match?
Yes. We believe in "mutual matching." Once we identify a potential fit, we facilitate a video call so you can interact face-to-face (virtually). This is your opportunity to gauge your chemistry and ensure the connection feels right before any legal agreements are signed. You will typically meet in person for the first time during the medical screening or the embryo transfer.
How much contact will we have during the pregnancy?
That is entirely up to you and the parents to decide. We encourage a minimum of one update per week to keep everyone connected, but many surrogates and parents speak much more frequently. Relationships often develop naturally—some stay strictly professional with email updates, while others become lifelong friends who text daily. We will help establish these expectations early on so everyone is on the same page.
What if the parents live in another country?
Working with international parents is a rewarding experience! While they cannot pop in for lunch, they are often incredibly dedicated and communicative via video chat. For the birth, international parents typically arrive in the U.S. weeks in advance to ensure they are present for the delivery.
Who covers the legal costs? Do I choose my own attorney?
Yes, you will have your own independent legal representation to review the contract and protect your interests. You are free to choose an attorney you trust, or we can recommend experienced reproductive law attorneys we have worked with before. Regardless of who you choose, the Intended Parents pay 100% of your legal fees.
What happens if the parents divorce during the pregnancy?
While this is highly unlikely, our legal contracts account for every scenario. In the event of a separation or divorce, the Intended Parents remain legally responsible for the child. You would never be responsible for custody or care of the baby.
Has a parent ever changed their mind and not taken the baby?
Never. Surrogacy is a long, expensive, and emotionally invested process; parents act out of a desperate desire to have a child, not a whim. Furthermore, legal contracts are in place prior to the embryo transfer that explicitly establish the Intended Parents as the legal guardians responsible for the child upon birth, regardless of circumstances.
What if there is a tragedy (e.g., stillbirth)?
In the heartbreaking event of a stillbirth or passing, the Intended Parents assume immediate custody and responsibility for all details/arrangements. You are never left to handle this burden alone.
Is childcare covered when I have appointments?
Yes. We understand that you have your own family to care for. Your compensation package includes allowances for childcare costs or lost wages to ensure your children are looked after while you attend medical screenings, the embryo transfer, or other surrogacy-related appointments.
How do the parents get on the birth certificate?
This depends on the laws of the state where you deliver. Our legal team ensures this is handled smoothly, typically through a "Pre-Birth Order" (a court ruling issued during the pregnancy) that instructs the hospital to place the Intended Parents' names directly on the original birth certificate.
Financial & Compensation
How much will I earn as a surrogate?
At Nurtured Path, we believe in high-value, transparent compensation. While every package is tailored to the specific surrogate (based on experience and location), first-time surrogates typically receive a total benefit package valued between $65,000 and $70,000+. This includes your base fee, monthly allowances, and paid expenses. Experienced surrogates earn significantly more.
You can view the full compensation breakdown from this link.
Do I have to pay for any medical bills?
No. You will never be responsible for medical costs related to the surrogacy. A comprehensive health insurance policy will be purchased for you (paid for by the Intended Parents), or we will utilize your existing policy if it is surrogacy-friendly. All deductibles, co-pays, and uncovered medical expenses are paid directly by the Intended Parents via the escrow account.
Is my compensation taxable?
Nurtured Path does not issue a 1099 form for your compensation, as many view surrogacy payments as "pain and suffering" or pre-birth child support, which are often not taxed. However, tax laws vary significantly by state and are subject to change. We strongly recommend consulting with a tax professional or CPA to discuss your specific situation.
How and when do I get paid?
Payments are released on a strict schedule from a secure, independent escrow account.
Allowances: Start as soon as you begin injectable medications (to cover travel/childcare).
Base Pay: Your main compensation is divided into equal monthly installments, starting the month after the fetal heartbeat is confirmed (usually around 6–8 weeks of pregnancy).
Early Delivery: If you deliver early (after the viability timeframe), you are not penalized—you will receive the remaining balance of your base compensation in a lump sum.
Will I have any out-of-pocket expenses?
The goal is for this journey to cost you zero dollars. Major expenses (medical, legal, travel booking) are pre-paid by the agency. Minor incidental expenses (like hospital parking, mileage, or vitamins) may need to be paid upfront by you, but you will be fully reimbursed typically within 10–14 days upon submitting a receipt.
What about Life Insurance?
Your peace of mind is our priority. We secure a $1,000,000 life insurance policy for you, with the premiums fully paid by the Intended Parents. You have the sole right to choose the beneficiaries of this policy.
How much will I earn as a surrogate?
At Nurtured Path, we believe in high-value, transparent compensation. While every package is tailored to the specific surrogate (based on experience and location), first-time surrogates typically receive a total benefit package valued between $65,000 and $70,000+. This includes your base fee, monthly allowances, and paid expenses. Experienced surrogates earn significantly more.
You can view the full compensation breakdown from this link.
Do I have to pay for any medical bills?
No. You will never be responsible for medical costs related to the surrogacy. A comprehensive health insurance policy will be purchased for you (paid for by the Intended Parents), or we will utilize your existing policy if it is surrogacy-friendly. All deductibles, co-pays, and uncovered medical expenses are paid directly by the Intended Parents via the escrow account.
Is my compensation taxable?
Nurtured Path does not issue a 1099 form for your compensation, as many view surrogacy payments as "pain and suffering" or pre-birth child support, which are often not taxed. However, tax laws vary significantly by state and are subject to change. We strongly recommend consulting with a tax professional or CPA to discuss your specific situation.
How and when do I get paid?
Payments are released on a strict schedule from a secure, independent escrow account.
Allowances: Start as soon as you begin injectable medications (to cover travel/childcare).
Base Pay: Your main compensation is divided into equal monthly installments, starting the month after the fetal heartbeat is confirmed (usually around 6–8 weeks of pregnancy).
Early Delivery: If you deliver early (after the viability timeframe), you are not penalized—you will receive the remaining balance of your base compensation in a lump sum.
Will I have any out-of-pocket expenses?
The goal is for this journey to cost you zero dollars. Major expenses (medical, legal, travel booking) are pre-paid by the agency. Minor incidental expenses (like hospital parking, mileage, or vitamins) may need to be paid upfront by you, but you will be fully reimbursed typically within 10–14 days upon submitting a receipt.
What about Life Insurance?
Your peace of mind is our priority. We secure a $1,000,000 life insurance policy for you, with the premiums fully paid by the Intended Parents. You have the sole right to choose the beneficiaries of this policy.
Experienced Carriers
Do experienced surrogates earn more?
Yes, absolutely. We value the expertise and proven track record you bring to the table. Experienced carriers typically receive a $10,000 increase to their base compensation for each successful prior journey. During your intake, we will discuss your previous compensation and work with you to ensure your new package reflects your experience level and current financial needs.
I just delivered my first surrogate baby. When can I apply again?
While you technically can’t undergo another transfer immediately, we encourage you to reach out when you feel ready! generally, we advise waiting 3 months after a vaginal delivery or 6 months after a C-section before starting the application paperwork. This ensures you have had ample time to heal, rest, and enjoy time with your own family before diving back into screenings.
How soon can I do another transfer?
Medical guidelines vary by clinic, but for the safety of you and the baby, most IVF physicians require a wait time of 6 to 12 months between delivery and the next embryo transfer. The specific timeline often depends on whether your previous delivery was vaginal or via C-section.
Is the screening process faster the second time around?
Yes. We offer a "Fast Track" screening process for returners. Since we (or your previous agency) have already verified much of your history, the process is streamlined: fewer medical records to retrieve, less paperwork to complete, and a significantly shorter social work assessment.
What if I want to carry for the same parents again (Sibling Journey)?
Sibling journeys are wonderful, but timing is everything. While the screening is simple, the biggest hurdle is often the parents' readiness. Since they just welcomed a newborn and likely invested heavily in the first journey, they may need more time—physically and financially—before they are ready for baby #2. We recommend having an open, honest conversation about timelines early on to ensure everyone’s expectations align.
If my previous parents aren't ready, can I match with someone new?
Of course. While many surrogates love the idea of helping the same family twice, it isn't always possible. If your previous Intended Parents are not planning a sibling journey (or aren't ready yet), we have many other wonderful families waiting who would be thrilled to match with an experienced carrier like you.
I have specific questions about my next journey. Who do I talk to?
We have a dedicated team specifically for experienced carriers. If you want to discuss custom compensation packages or specific timeline requests, please contact us directly so we can fast-track your inquiry.
Do experienced surrogates earn more?
Yes, absolutely. We value the expertise and proven track record you bring to the table. Experienced carriers typically receive a $10,000 increase to their base compensation for each successful prior journey. During your intake, we will discuss your previous compensation and work with you to ensure your new package reflects your experience level and current financial needs.
I just delivered my first surrogate baby. When can I apply again?
While you technically can’t undergo another transfer immediately, we encourage you to reach out when you feel ready! generally, we advise waiting 3 months after a vaginal delivery or 6 months after a C-section before starting the application paperwork. This ensures you have had ample time to heal, rest, and enjoy time with your own family before diving back into screenings.
How soon can I do another transfer?
Medical guidelines vary by clinic, but for the safety of you and the baby, most IVF physicians require a wait time of 6 to 12 months between delivery and the next embryo transfer. The specific timeline often depends on whether your previous delivery was vaginal or via C-section.
Is the screening process faster the second time around?
Yes. We offer a "Fast Track" screening process for returners. Since we (or your previous agency) have already verified much of your history, the process is streamlined: fewer medical records to retrieve, less paperwork to complete, and a significantly shorter social work assessment.
What if I want to carry for the same parents again (Sibling Journey)?
Sibling journeys are wonderful, but timing is everything. While the screening is simple, the biggest hurdle is often the parents' readiness. Since they just welcomed a newborn and likely invested heavily in the first journey, they may need more time—physically and financially—before they are ready for baby #2. We recommend having an open, honest conversation about timelines early on to ensure everyone’s expectations align.
If my previous parents aren't ready, can I match with someone new?
Of course. While many surrogates love the idea of helping the same family twice, it isn't always possible. If your previous Intended Parents are not planning a sibling journey (or aren't ready yet), we have many other wonderful families waiting who would be thrilled to match with an experienced carrier like you.
I have specific questions about my next journey. Who do I talk to?
We have a dedicated team specifically for experienced carriers. If you want to discuss custom compensation packages or specific timeline requests, please contact us directly so we can fast-track your inquiry.
The Surrogacy Process
What is the difference between Gestational Surrogacy and Traditional Surrogacy?
The main difference lies in genetics.
In Gestational Surrogacy (the only type Nurtured Path facilitates), the surrogate has no genetic link to the baby; she carries an embryo created via IVF using the Intended Parents' or donors' genetic material.
Traditional Surrogacy involves the surrogate using her own egg, meaning she is biologically related to the child. For legal and emotional clarity, our program focuses exclusively on gestational carriers.
How do I start the application process?
Getting started is simple. You can complete our initial online application in about 10 minutes. Once submitted, our team will review your details and reach out within 24 hours to discuss the next steps.
Why should I work with an agency instead of doing it independently?
An agency acts as your safety net and project manager. Independent surrogacy requires you to manage your own legal contracts, payment schedules, and medical coordination, which can be overwhelming. At Nurtured Path, we handle every logistical detail—from screening and matching to legal representation and counseling—so you can focus entirely on a healthy pregnancy while we handle any challenges that arise.
I submitted my application. What happens next?
After we receive your application, we will contact you within 1–2 business days. If you meet the initial criteria, you will get access to our secure Surrogate Portal. Here, you will complete the necessary intake forms, including your medical history, insurance details, and matching preferences. Once our team has reviewed your records, we will schedule a comprehensive screening call for you and your support person.
What happens during the social work screening call?
This call is a two-way conversation designed to educate and assess. A licensed social worker from our team will walk you through the journey, covering the IVF process, compensation, and legal steps. It is also your chance to ask any questions you have. On our end, we will discuss your motivation for becoming a surrogate and evaluate your emotional readiness and support system. Please note that your primary support person (partner or spouse) will also participate in this screening.
Surrogate Requirements
What are the main requirements to become a surrogate with Nurtured Path?
To ensure a safe journey for both you and the baby, we follow strict guidelines set by medical professionals and legal experts. While you can view our full list of requirements here, the core qualifications include:
Motherhood: You are currently raising at least one child you gave birth to.
Age & Health: You are between 21 and 42 years old with a healthy BMI (typically 18–32).
Lifestyle: You have a stable, drug-free, and smoke-free lifestyle with a reliable support system.
Financial Independence: You are not currently receiving government cash assistance or housing support (Section 8).
Location: You live in a surrogacy-friendly U.S. state (we currently cannot accept applicants from Nebraska, Louisiana, or Michigan).
I receive government assistance. Am I still eligible?
It depends on the type of assistance. We cannot accept applicants receiving cash aid (welfare), public housing, or Section 8. This rule protects you—surrogacy compensation can often disqualify you from these income-based programs, which could put your family’s housing or financial security at risk. However, other forms of aid (like food stamps/SNAP or subsidized childcare) are reviewed on a case-by-case basis.
Why is there a BMI requirement?
This standard is set by the IVF clinics we partner with, not just our agency. Fertility specialists require a specific BMI range because it significantly impacts how your body processes fertility medications and responds to the embryo transfer. Adhering to these limits ensures the highest possible chance of a successful pregnancy and minimizes medical risks for you.
Lifestyle & Medical Questions
I am currently breastfeeding. Can I still apply?
Yes, you are welcome to apply and begin the screening process while breastfeeding! However, you will need to completely wean before starting any fertility medications to ensure your hormone levels are ready for the IVF process. We can work with you to create a timeline that fits your weaning schedule.
How soon after my last delivery can I become a surrogate?
To give your body adequate time to heal and recover, we follow standard medical guidelines: we can begin the process 3 months after a vaginal delivery or 6 months after a C-section.
Will I need to travel during the process? A
Likely, yes. While your local monitoring appointments (blood work and ultrasounds) happen at a clinic near your home, you will need to travel to the Intended Parents' IVF clinic for the actual embryo transfer. This is typically a 3–5 day trip. All travel costs for you and a companion are fully covered.
My partner isn’t fully on board. Can I still proceed?
Surrogacy is a commitment that affects your entire household, so having the full support of your spouse or partner is a requirement for our program. They will actually participate in the screening process with you! If you are single, we require that you have a reliable support person (friend or family member) committed to being by your side.
I don’t believe in termination/abortion. Can I still be matched?
We respect that this is a deeply personal topic. However, most Intended Parents require the legal option to make medical decisions for their future child in the event of severe fetal abnormalities. We match surrogates and parents based on shared values; if you are strictly opposed to termination, please discuss this with us early so we can determine if a suitable match is available.
What if I have a history of depression or anxiety?
We review every applicant on a case-by-case basis. However, to protect your mental health, we generally cannot accept applicants who required medication for Postpartum Depression (PPD) after their most recent pregnancy. If you have a history of general anxiety or depression (unrelated to PPD) and are not currently on medication, our medical team will review your records to determine eligibility.
Can I act as a surrogate for the baby I am currently pregnant with?
No. Gestational surrogacy involves carrying an embryo created via IVF that is not genetically related to you. If you are currently pregnant and seeking a placement for the child, we recommend contacting a local adoption agency or attorney.
Can I choose my own OB-GYN?
Yes! You typically select your own OB-GYN or midwife for your prenatal care, provided they accept the insurance plan being used. If you choose a midwife, they generally must work under the supervision of an OB. If you are carrying twins, you may be required to see a specialist (Maternal-Fetal Medicine) for extra precaution.
Will the pregnancy feel physically different because it’s not my baby?
Physiologically, your body nurtures a surrogate pregnancy exactly the same way it did your own children. Aside from the IVF medications used in the first trimester to support the pregnancy, the physical experience of carrying the baby is no different than a traditional pregnancy.
Do I have to abstain from sex?
Temporarily, yes. To maximize the chances of a successful implantation, clinics usually require pelvic rest (no intercourse) for approximately 2 weeks before and 2 weeks after the embryo transfer.
Does my blood type need to match the parents?
No. It is very common (and safe) for a surrogate to have a different blood type than the Intended Parents or the baby. Modern reproductive medicine manages blood type compatibility as a standard part of the process.
What about STIs?
Serious infections that carry a transmission risk to the fetus (such as HIV or Hepatitis B/C) are automatic disqualifiers. However, common conditions like HPV or HSV (Herpes) do not necessarily disqualify you, provided they are disclosed during screening and properly managed.
Can I request a single embryo transfer?
Absolutely. We want you to feel safe and comfortable. We will match you with Intended Parents who share your preference for a single embryo transfer (SET). You will never be forced to carry multiples if you are not comfortable doing so.
Is bed rest required after the transfer?
Protocols vary by clinic, but strict "medical bed rest" is rare these days. Most doctors recommend 24 to 48 hours of "modified bed rest" (relaxing at home/hotel) immediately following the transfer to help the embryo implant.
Do the IVF medications affect my mood?
They can. The hormones used to prepare your uterus are similar to those your body produces naturally, but in higher doses. It is normal to experience temporary side effects like bloating or mood swings (similar to PMS) during the weeks leading up to the transfer.
How do I know what fee to ask for?
You don’t need to guess or negotiate! Nurtured Path offers a standardized, high-value compensation package based on your location and experience level. Your coordinator will walk you through the full breakdown of your base pay and allowances during your screening.
Matching & Intended Parents
Do I get a say in who I match with?
Absolutely. This is a partnership, and you must feel 100% comfortable with the people you are helping. We work with a wide variety of Intended Parents—married couples, single parents, LGBTQ+ partners, and international families. During your screening, we will discuss your preferences to ensure we only present profiles that align with your values and comfort level.
Who are the Intended Parents?
There is no "typical" profile! Our community is incredibly diverse. We represent Intended Parents from all over the world and from all walks of life. Approximately half of our families identify as LGBTQ+, and we work with a healthy mix of both domestic and international parents. Whether they are single individuals or married couples, they all share one thing: a deep desire to build a family.
Will I meet the parents before we officially match?
Yes. We believe in "mutual matching." Once we identify a potential fit, we facilitate a video call so you can interact face-to-face (virtually). This is your opportunity to gauge your chemistry and ensure the connection feels right before any legal agreements are signed. You will typically meet in person for the first time during the medical screening or the embryo transfer.
How much contact will we have during the pregnancy?
That is entirely up to you and the parents to decide. We encourage a minimum of one update per week to keep everyone connected, but many surrogates and parents speak much more frequently. Relationships often develop naturally—some stay strictly professional with email updates, while others become lifelong friends who text daily. We will help establish these expectations early on so everyone is on the same page.
What if the parents live in another country?
Working with international parents is a rewarding experience! While they cannot pop in for lunch, they are often incredibly dedicated and communicative via video chat. For the birth, international parents typically arrive in the U.S. weeks in advance to ensure they are present for the delivery.
Who covers the legal costs? Do I choose my own attorney?
Yes, you will have your own independent legal representation to review the contract and protect your interests. You are free to choose an attorney you trust, or we can recommend experienced reproductive law attorneys we have worked with before. Regardless of who you choose, the Intended Parents pay 100% of your legal fees.
What happens if the parents divorce during the pregnancy?
While this is highly unlikely, our legal contracts account for every scenario. In the event of a separation or divorce, the Intended Parents remain legally responsible for the child. You would never be responsible for custody or care of the baby.
Has a parent ever changed their mind and not taken the baby?
Never. Surrogacy is a long, expensive, and emotionally invested process; parents act out of a desperate desire to have a child, not a whim. Furthermore, legal contracts are in place prior to the embryo transfer that explicitly establish the Intended Parents as the legal guardians responsible for the child upon birth, regardless of circumstances.
What if there is a tragedy (e.g., stillbirth)?
In the heartbreaking event of a stillbirth or passing, the Intended Parents assume immediate custody and responsibility for all details/arrangements. You are never left to handle this burden alone.
Is childcare covered when I have appointments?
Yes. We understand that you have your own family to care for. Your compensation package includes allowances for childcare costs or lost wages to ensure your children are looked after while you attend medical screenings, the embryo transfer, or other surrogacy-related appointments.
How do the parents get on the birth certificate?
This depends on the laws of the state where you deliver. Our legal team ensures this is handled smoothly, typically through a "Pre-Birth Order" (a court ruling issued during the pregnancy) that instructs the hospital to place the Intended Parents' names directly on the original birth certificate.
Financial & Compensation
How much will I earn as a surrogate?
At Nurtured Path, we believe in high-value, transparent compensation. While every package is tailored to the specific surrogate (based on experience and location), first-time surrogates typically receive a total benefit package valued between $65,000 and $70,000+. This includes your base fee, monthly allowances, and paid expenses. Experienced surrogates earn significantly more.
You can view the full compensation breakdown from this link.
Do I have to pay for any medical bills?
No. You will never be responsible for medical costs related to the surrogacy. A comprehensive health insurance policy will be purchased for you (paid for by the Intended Parents), or we will utilize your existing policy if it is surrogacy-friendly. All deductibles, co-pays, and uncovered medical expenses are paid directly by the Intended Parents via the escrow account.
Is my compensation taxable?
Nurtured Path does not issue a 1099 form for your compensation, as many view surrogacy payments as "pain and suffering" or pre-birth child support, which are often not taxed. However, tax laws vary significantly by state and are subject to change. We strongly recommend consulting with a tax professional or CPA to discuss your specific situation.
How and when do I get paid?
Payments are released on a strict schedule from a secure, independent escrow account.
Allowances: Start as soon as you begin injectable medications (to cover travel/childcare).
Base Pay: Your main compensation is divided into equal monthly installments, starting the month after the fetal heartbeat is confirmed (usually around 6–8 weeks of pregnancy).
Early Delivery: If you deliver early (after the viability timeframe), you are not penalized—you will receive the remaining balance of your base compensation in a lump sum.
Will I have any out-of-pocket expenses?
The goal is for this journey to cost you zero dollars. Major expenses (medical, legal, travel booking) are pre-paid by the agency. Minor incidental expenses (like hospital parking, mileage, or vitamins) may need to be paid upfront by you, but you will be fully reimbursed typically within 10–14 days upon submitting a receipt.
What about Life Insurance?
Your peace of mind is our priority. We secure a $1,000,000 life insurance policy for you, with the premiums fully paid by the Intended Parents. You have the sole right to choose the beneficiaries of this policy.
Experienced Carriers
Do experienced surrogates earn more?
Yes, absolutely. We value the expertise and proven track record you bring to the table. Experienced carriers typically receive a $10,000 increase to their base compensation for each successful prior journey. During your intake, we will discuss your previous compensation and work with you to ensure your new package reflects your experience level and current financial needs.
I just delivered my first surrogate baby. When can I apply again?
While you technically can’t undergo another transfer immediately, we encourage you to reach out when you feel ready! generally, we advise waiting 3 months after a vaginal delivery or 6 months after a C-section before starting the application paperwork. This ensures you have had ample time to heal, rest, and enjoy time with your own family before diving back into screenings.
How soon can I do another transfer?
Medical guidelines vary by clinic, but for the safety of you and the baby, most IVF physicians require a wait time of 6 to 12 months between delivery and the next embryo transfer. The specific timeline often depends on whether your previous delivery was vaginal or via C-section.
Is the screening process faster the second time around?
Yes. We offer a "Fast Track" screening process for returners. Since we (or your previous agency) have already verified much of your history, the process is streamlined: fewer medical records to retrieve, less paperwork to complete, and a significantly shorter social work assessment.
What if I want to carry for the same parents again (Sibling Journey)?
Sibling journeys are wonderful, but timing is everything. While the screening is simple, the biggest hurdle is often the parents' readiness. Since they just welcomed a newborn and likely invested heavily in the first journey, they may need more time—physically and financially—before they are ready for baby #2. We recommend having an open, honest conversation about timelines early on to ensure everyone’s expectations align.
If my previous parents aren't ready, can I match with someone new?
Of course. While many surrogates love the idea of helping the same family twice, it isn't always possible. If your previous Intended Parents are not planning a sibling journey (or aren't ready yet), we have many other wonderful families waiting who would be thrilled to match with an experienced carrier like you.
I have specific questions about my next journey. Who do I talk to?
We have a dedicated team specifically for experienced carriers. If you want to discuss custom compensation packages or specific timeline requests, please contact us directly so we can fast-track your inquiry.
The Surrogacy Process
What is the difference between Gestational Surrogacy and Traditional Surrogacy?
The main difference lies in genetics.
In Gestational Surrogacy (the only type Nurtured Path facilitates), the surrogate has no genetic link to the baby; she carries an embryo created via IVF using the Intended Parents' or donors' genetic material.
Traditional Surrogacy involves the surrogate using her own egg, meaning she is biologically related to the child. For legal and emotional clarity, our program focuses exclusively on gestational carriers.
How do I start the application process?
Getting started is simple. You can complete our initial online application in about 10 minutes. Once submitted, our team will review your details and reach out within 24 hours to discuss the next steps.
Why should I work with an agency instead of doing it independently?
An agency acts as your safety net and project manager. Independent surrogacy requires you to manage your own legal contracts, payment schedules, and medical coordination, which can be overwhelming. At Nurtured Path, we handle every logistical detail—from screening and matching to legal representation and counseling—so you can focus entirely on a healthy pregnancy while we handle any challenges that arise.
I submitted my application. What happens next?
After we receive your application, we will contact you within 1–2 business days. If you meet the initial criteria, you will get access to our secure Surrogate Portal. Here, you will complete the necessary intake forms, including your medical history, insurance details, and matching preferences. Once our team has reviewed your records, we will schedule a comprehensive screening call for you and your support person.
What happens during the social work screening call?
This call is a two-way conversation designed to educate and assess. A licensed social worker from our team will walk you through the journey, covering the IVF process, compensation, and legal steps. It is also your chance to ask any questions you have. On our end, we will discuss your motivation for becoming a surrogate and evaluate your emotional readiness and support system. Please note that your primary support person (partner or spouse) will also participate in this screening.
Surrogate Requirements
What are the main requirements to become a surrogate with Nurtured Path?
To ensure a safe journey for both you and the baby, we follow strict guidelines set by medical professionals and legal experts. While you can view our full list of requirements here, the core qualifications include:
Motherhood: You are currently raising at least one child you gave birth to.
Age & Health: You are between 21 and 42 years old with a healthy BMI (typically 18–32).
Lifestyle: You have a stable, drug-free, and smoke-free lifestyle with a reliable support system.
Financial Independence: You are not currently receiving government cash assistance or housing support (Section 8).
Location: You live in a surrogacy-friendly U.S. state (we currently cannot accept applicants from Nebraska, Louisiana, or Michigan).
I receive government assistance. Am I still eligible?
It depends on the type of assistance. We cannot accept applicants receiving cash aid (welfare), public housing, or Section 8. This rule protects you—surrogacy compensation can often disqualify you from these income-based programs, which could put your family’s housing or financial security at risk. However, other forms of aid (like food stamps/SNAP or subsidized childcare) are reviewed on a case-by-case basis.
Why is there a BMI requirement?
This standard is set by the IVF clinics we partner with, not just our agency. Fertility specialists require a specific BMI range because it significantly impacts how your body processes fertility medications and responds to the embryo transfer. Adhering to these limits ensures the highest possible chance of a successful pregnancy and minimizes medical risks for you.
Lifestyle & Medical Questions
I am currently breastfeeding. Can I still apply?
Yes, you are welcome to apply and begin the screening process while breastfeeding! However, you will need to completely wean before starting any fertility medications to ensure your hormone levels are ready for the IVF process. We can work with you to create a timeline that fits your weaning schedule.
How soon after my last delivery can I become a surrogate?
To give your body adequate time to heal and recover, we follow standard medical guidelines: we can begin the process 3 months after a vaginal delivery or 6 months after a C-section.
Will I need to travel during the process? A
Likely, yes. While your local monitoring appointments (blood work and ultrasounds) happen at a clinic near your home, you will need to travel to the Intended Parents' IVF clinic for the actual embryo transfer. This is typically a 3–5 day trip. All travel costs for you and a companion are fully covered.
My partner isn’t fully on board. Can I still proceed?
Surrogacy is a commitment that affects your entire household, so having the full support of your spouse or partner is a requirement for our program. They will actually participate in the screening process with you! If you are single, we require that you have a reliable support person (friend or family member) committed to being by your side.
I don’t believe in termination/abortion. Can I still be matched?
We respect that this is a deeply personal topic. However, most Intended Parents require the legal option to make medical decisions for their future child in the event of severe fetal abnormalities. We match surrogates and parents based on shared values; if you are strictly opposed to termination, please discuss this with us early so we can determine if a suitable match is available.
What if I have a history of depression or anxiety?
We review every applicant on a case-by-case basis. However, to protect your mental health, we generally cannot accept applicants who required medication for Postpartum Depression (PPD) after their most recent pregnancy. If you have a history of general anxiety or depression (unrelated to PPD) and are not currently on medication, our medical team will review your records to determine eligibility.
Can I act as a surrogate for the baby I am currently pregnant with?
No. Gestational surrogacy involves carrying an embryo created via IVF that is not genetically related to you. If you are currently pregnant and seeking a placement for the child, we recommend contacting a local adoption agency or attorney.
Can I choose my own OB-GYN?
Yes! You typically select your own OB-GYN or midwife for your prenatal care, provided they accept the insurance plan being used. If you choose a midwife, they generally must work under the supervision of an OB. If you are carrying twins, you may be required to see a specialist (Maternal-Fetal Medicine) for extra precaution.
Will the pregnancy feel physically different because it’s not my baby?
Physiologically, your body nurtures a surrogate pregnancy exactly the same way it did your own children. Aside from the IVF medications used in the first trimester to support the pregnancy, the physical experience of carrying the baby is no different than a traditional pregnancy.
Do I have to abstain from sex?
Temporarily, yes. To maximize the chances of a successful implantation, clinics usually require pelvic rest (no intercourse) for approximately 2 weeks before and 2 weeks after the embryo transfer.
Does my blood type need to match the parents?
No. It is very common (and safe) for a surrogate to have a different blood type than the Intended Parents or the baby. Modern reproductive medicine manages blood type compatibility as a standard part of the process.
What about STIs?
Serious infections that carry a transmission risk to the fetus (such as HIV or Hepatitis B/C) are automatic disqualifiers. However, common conditions like HPV or HSV (Herpes) do not necessarily disqualify you, provided they are disclosed during screening and properly managed.
Can I request a single embryo transfer?
Absolutely. We want you to feel safe and comfortable. We will match you with Intended Parents who share your preference for a single embryo transfer (SET). You will never be forced to carry multiples if you are not comfortable doing so.
Is bed rest required after the transfer?
Protocols vary by clinic, but strict "medical bed rest" is rare these days. Most doctors recommend 24 to 48 hours of "modified bed rest" (relaxing at home/hotel) immediately following the transfer to help the embryo implant.
Do the IVF medications affect my mood?
They can. The hormones used to prepare your uterus are similar to those your body produces naturally, but in higher doses. It is normal to experience temporary side effects like bloating or mood swings (similar to PMS) during the weeks leading up to the transfer.
How do I know what fee to ask for?
You don’t need to guess or negotiate! Nurtured Path offers a standardized, high-value compensation package based on your location and experience level. Your coordinator will walk you through the full breakdown of your base pay and allowances during your screening.
Matching & Intended Parents
Do I get a say in who I match with?
Absolutely. This is a partnership, and you must feel 100% comfortable with the people you are helping. We work with a wide variety of Intended Parents—married couples, single parents, LGBTQ+ partners, and international families. During your screening, we will discuss your preferences to ensure we only present profiles that align with your values and comfort level.
Who are the Intended Parents?
There is no "typical" profile! Our community is incredibly diverse. We represent Intended Parents from all over the world and from all walks of life. Approximately half of our families identify as LGBTQ+, and we work with a healthy mix of both domestic and international parents. Whether they are single individuals or married couples, they all share one thing: a deep desire to build a family.
Will I meet the parents before we officially match?
Yes. We believe in "mutual matching." Once we identify a potential fit, we facilitate a video call so you can interact face-to-face (virtually). This is your opportunity to gauge your chemistry and ensure the connection feels right before any legal agreements are signed. You will typically meet in person for the first time during the medical screening or the embryo transfer.
How much contact will we have during the pregnancy?
That is entirely up to you and the parents to decide. We encourage a minimum of one update per week to keep everyone connected, but many surrogates and parents speak much more frequently. Relationships often develop naturally—some stay strictly professional with email updates, while others become lifelong friends who text daily. We will help establish these expectations early on so everyone is on the same page.
What if the parents live in another country?
Working with international parents is a rewarding experience! While they cannot pop in for lunch, they are often incredibly dedicated and communicative via video chat. For the birth, international parents typically arrive in the U.S. weeks in advance to ensure they are present for the delivery.
Who covers the legal costs? Do I choose my own attorney?
Yes, you will have your own independent legal representation to review the contract and protect your interests. You are free to choose an attorney you trust, or we can recommend experienced reproductive law attorneys we have worked with before. Regardless of who you choose, the Intended Parents pay 100% of your legal fees.
What happens if the parents divorce during the pregnancy?
While this is highly unlikely, our legal contracts account for every scenario. In the event of a separation or divorce, the Intended Parents remain legally responsible for the child. You would never be responsible for custody or care of the baby.
Has a parent ever changed their mind and not taken the baby?
Never. Surrogacy is a long, expensive, and emotionally invested process; parents act out of a desperate desire to have a child, not a whim. Furthermore, legal contracts are in place prior to the embryo transfer that explicitly establish the Intended Parents as the legal guardians responsible for the child upon birth, regardless of circumstances.
What if there is a tragedy (e.g., stillbirth)?
In the heartbreaking event of a stillbirth or passing, the Intended Parents assume immediate custody and responsibility for all details/arrangements. You are never left to handle this burden alone.
Is childcare covered when I have appointments?
Yes. We understand that you have your own family to care for. Your compensation package includes allowances for childcare costs or lost wages to ensure your children are looked after while you attend medical screenings, the embryo transfer, or other surrogacy-related appointments.
How do the parents get on the birth certificate?
This depends on the laws of the state where you deliver. Our legal team ensures this is handled smoothly, typically through a "Pre-Birth Order" (a court ruling issued during the pregnancy) that instructs the hospital to place the Intended Parents' names directly on the original birth certificate.
Financial & Compensation
How much will I earn as a surrogate?
At Nurtured Path, we believe in high-value, transparent compensation. While every package is tailored to the specific surrogate (based on experience and location), first-time surrogates typically receive a total benefit package valued between $65,000 and $70,000+. This includes your base fee, monthly allowances, and paid expenses. Experienced surrogates earn significantly more.
You can view the full compensation breakdown from this link.
Do I have to pay for any medical bills?
No. You will never be responsible for medical costs related to the surrogacy. A comprehensive health insurance policy will be purchased for you (paid for by the Intended Parents), or we will utilize your existing policy if it is surrogacy-friendly. All deductibles, co-pays, and uncovered medical expenses are paid directly by the Intended Parents via the escrow account.
Is my compensation taxable?
Nurtured Path does not issue a 1099 form for your compensation, as many view surrogacy payments as "pain and suffering" or pre-birth child support, which are often not taxed. However, tax laws vary significantly by state and are subject to change. We strongly recommend consulting with a tax professional or CPA to discuss your specific situation.
How and when do I get paid?
Payments are released on a strict schedule from a secure, independent escrow account.
Allowances: Start as soon as you begin injectable medications (to cover travel/childcare).
Base Pay: Your main compensation is divided into equal monthly installments, starting the month after the fetal heartbeat is confirmed (usually around 6–8 weeks of pregnancy).
Early Delivery: If you deliver early (after the viability timeframe), you are not penalized—you will receive the remaining balance of your base compensation in a lump sum.
Will I have any out-of-pocket expenses?
The goal is for this journey to cost you zero dollars. Major expenses (medical, legal, travel booking) are pre-paid by the agency. Minor incidental expenses (like hospital parking, mileage, or vitamins) may need to be paid upfront by you, but you will be fully reimbursed typically within 10–14 days upon submitting a receipt.
What about Life Insurance?
Your peace of mind is our priority. We secure a $1,000,000 life insurance policy for you, with the premiums fully paid by the Intended Parents. You have the sole right to choose the beneficiaries of this policy.
Experienced Carriers
Do experienced surrogates earn more?
Yes, absolutely. We value the expertise and proven track record you bring to the table. Experienced carriers typically receive a $10,000 increase to their base compensation for each successful prior journey. During your intake, we will discuss your previous compensation and work with you to ensure your new package reflects your experience level and current financial needs.
I just delivered my first surrogate baby. When can I apply again?
While you technically can’t undergo another transfer immediately, we encourage you to reach out when you feel ready! generally, we advise waiting 3 months after a vaginal delivery or 6 months after a C-section before starting the application paperwork. This ensures you have had ample time to heal, rest, and enjoy time with your own family before diving back into screenings.
How soon can I do another transfer?
Medical guidelines vary by clinic, but for the safety of you and the baby, most IVF physicians require a wait time of 6 to 12 months between delivery and the next embryo transfer. The specific timeline often depends on whether your previous delivery was vaginal or via C-section.
Is the screening process faster the second time around?
Yes. We offer a "Fast Track" screening process for returners. Since we (or your previous agency) have already verified much of your history, the process is streamlined: fewer medical records to retrieve, less paperwork to complete, and a significantly shorter social work assessment.
What if I want to carry for the same parents again (Sibling Journey)?
Sibling journeys are wonderful, but timing is everything. While the screening is simple, the biggest hurdle is often the parents' readiness. Since they just welcomed a newborn and likely invested heavily in the first journey, they may need more time—physically and financially—before they are ready for baby #2. We recommend having an open, honest conversation about timelines early on to ensure everyone’s expectations align.
If my previous parents aren't ready, can I match with someone new?
Of course. While many surrogates love the idea of helping the same family twice, it isn't always possible. If your previous Intended Parents are not planning a sibling journey (or aren't ready yet), we have many other wonderful families waiting who would be thrilled to match with an experienced carrier like you.
I have specific questions about my next journey. Who do I talk to?
We have a dedicated team specifically for experienced carriers. If you want to discuss custom compensation packages or specific timeline requests, please contact us directly so we can fast-track your inquiry.
Surrogate FAQs
The Surrogacy Process
The Surrogacy Process
Surrogate FAQs
The Surrogacy Process
What is the difference between Gestational and Traditional Surrogacy?
The distinction comes down to genetics.
Gestational Surrogacy: The surrogate carries an embryo created via IVF using the Intended Parents' (or donors') genetic material. She has no genetic link to the child. This is the most common method and the only type of surrogacy Nurtured Path facilitates.
Traditional Surrogacy: The surrogate uses her own egg, making her biologically related to the child.
How do we start our journey with Nurtured Path?
It begins with a conversation. We invite you to schedule a complimentary consultation with our team. During this meeting, we will discuss your story, your family goals, and our program options. It is a no-pressure opportunity to ask questions (legal, financial, or medical) and see if we are the right fit for you.
Do I need a medical reason to use a surrogate?
Yes. At Nurtured Path, we require that Intended Parents have a diagnosed medical necessity for surrogacy (physical or psychological) verified by a treating physician. We do not currently facilitate "social surrogacy" (surrogacy purely as a lifestyle choice). We review every case individually, so if you are unsure if you qualify, please reach out to our intake team.
Can single individuals become parents through your program?
Absolutely. We proudly support Intended Parents of all backgrounds—whether you are a single individual, a same-sex couple, or a heterosexual couple. If you are ready to love and raise a child, we are ready to help you get there.
Will we have a relationship with our surrogate?
We certainly hope so! We view surrogacy as a partnership, not a transaction. We encourage open communication and meaningful relationships. Most parents visit their surrogate in her hometown at least once during the pregnancy to bond, meet her family, and see where their child is growing.
Where will the baby be born?
Your surrogate will deliver at a hospital near her home, typically with the OB/GYN she knows and trusts. Our legal and insurance teams vet these locations to ensure they are equipped to handle the birth. As Intended Parents, you will travel to her location for the delivery. Hospital policies vary, but we advocate for you to be present in the delivery room and to have a private room for you and the baby immediately after birth.
How does the legal process work?
Our legal team manages the entire landscape to secure your parental rights.
Before Birth: We match you with a surrogate in a state with favorable laws. We then negotiate the carrier contract and, in most cases, secure a "Pre-Birth Order" that declares you the legal parents before the baby arrives.
After Birth: Depending on the state, we finalize any remaining steps, such as Voluntary Acknowledgments of Paternity or judgments, to ensure your names are legally on the birth certificate.
What is the difference between Gestational and Traditional Surrogacy?
The distinction comes down to genetics.
Gestational Surrogacy: The surrogate carries an embryo created via IVF using the Intended Parents' (or donors') genetic material. She has no genetic link to the child. This is the most common method and the only type of surrogacy Nurtured Path facilitates.
Traditional Surrogacy: The surrogate uses her own egg, making her biologically related to the child.
How do we start our journey with Nurtured Path?
It begins with a conversation. We invite you to schedule a complimentary consultation with our team. During this meeting, we will discuss your story, your family goals, and our program options. It is a no-pressure opportunity to ask questions (legal, financial, or medical) and see if we are the right fit for you.
Do I need a medical reason to use a surrogate?
Yes. At Nurtured Path, we require that Intended Parents have a diagnosed medical necessity for surrogacy (physical or psychological) verified by a treating physician. We do not currently facilitate "social surrogacy" (surrogacy purely as a lifestyle choice). We review every case individually, so if you are unsure if you qualify, please reach out to our intake team.
Can single individuals become parents through your program?
Absolutely. We proudly support Intended Parents of all backgrounds—whether you are a single individual, a same-sex couple, or a heterosexual couple. If you are ready to love and raise a child, we are ready to help you get there.
Will we have a relationship with our surrogate?
We certainly hope so! We view surrogacy as a partnership, not a transaction. We encourage open communication and meaningful relationships. Most parents visit their surrogate in her hometown at least once during the pregnancy to bond, meet her family, and see where their child is growing.
Where will the baby be born?
Your surrogate will deliver at a hospital near her home, typically with the OB/GYN she knows and trusts. Our legal and insurance teams vet these locations to ensure they are equipped to handle the birth. As Intended Parents, you will travel to her location for the delivery. Hospital policies vary, but we advocate for you to be present in the delivery room and to have a private room for you and the baby immediately after birth.
How does the legal process work?
Our legal team manages the entire landscape to secure your parental rights.
Before Birth: We match you with a surrogate in a state with favorable laws. We then negotiate the carrier contract and, in most cases, secure a "Pre-Birth Order" that declares you the legal parents before the baby arrives.
After Birth: Depending on the state, we finalize any remaining steps, such as Voluntary Acknowledgments of Paternity or judgments, to ensure your names are legally on the birth certificate.
Costs
How much money do I save if I don’t use an agency?
If you choose an independent journey (Indy), you typically save the cost of the agency management fee—often between $20,000 and $40,000. However, it is important to remember that all other costs remain the same (surrogate compensation, IVF procedures, insurance, and legal fees).
What is the trade-off of going independent?
The trade-off is time and expertise. Without an agency, you effectively become the project manager of your own journey. You are responsible for vetting the surrogate, coordinating appointments between multiple clinics, managing escrow accounts, and finding qualified legal counsel. Many parents find that the stress and workload of managing these logistics outweigh the financial savings.
How much money do I save if I don’t use an agency?
If you choose an independent journey (Indy), you typically save the cost of the agency management fee—often between $20,000 and $40,000. However, it is important to remember that all other costs remain the same (surrogate compensation, IVF procedures, insurance, and legal fees).
What is the trade-off of going independent?
The trade-off is time and expertise. Without an agency, you effectively become the project manager of your own journey. You are responsible for vetting the surrogate, coordinating appointments between multiple clinics, managing escrow accounts, and finding qualified legal counsel. Many parents find that the stress and workload of managing these logistics outweigh the financial savings.
Cancer Survivor
Do I have to wait until my cancer treatment is finished to apply?
Your health and long-term recovery are our top priority. While every treatment plan is different, we generally recommend that you be in a place where you can focus mentally and emotionally on the future. We encourage you to fill out our parent inquiry form so we can have a private, compassionate conversation about your specific timeline and the best path forward.
Do you have experience working with cancer survivors?
Yes, frequently. A significant portion of our Intended Parents come to surrogacy following a medical diagnosis, including cancer. We understand the complex emotions that come with this transition—from the relief of recovery to the grief of fertility changes. We are here to bridge that gap, offering not just logistical management but a supportive community of other parents who have walked a similar path.
Do I have to wait until my cancer treatment is finished to apply?
Your health and long-term recovery are our top priority. While every treatment plan is different, we generally recommend that you be in a place where you can focus mentally and emotionally on the future. We encourage you to fill out our parent inquiry form so we can have a private, compassionate conversation about your specific timeline and the best path forward.
Do you have experience working with cancer survivors?
Yes, frequently. A significant portion of our Intended Parents come to surrogacy following a medical diagnosis, including cancer. We understand the complex emotions that come with this transition—from the relief of recovery to the grief of fertility changes. We are here to bridge that gap, offering not just logistical management but a supportive community of other parents who have walked a similar path.
International Intended Parents
How often will I need to visit the United States?
We generally recommend planning for two primary trips:
Embryo Creation: A short trip to your fertility clinic to provide genetic material (sperm/egg retrieval) and create your embryos.
The Delivery: A longer stay for the birth of your child. Optional: Many parents also choose to visit for the embryo transfer or the 20-week anatomy scan to bond with their surrogate, though this is not strictly required.
How long should we expect to stay after the baby is born?
We advise international parents to plan for a stay of approximately 3 to 4 weeks post-delivery. This time is necessary to finalize legal parentage, obtain your baby’s birth certificate, and secure a U.S. passport for travel. While some families may be able to leave sooner depending on the speed of local government offices, it is safer to plan for a month to avoid travel stress.
Does it cost more for international parents?
No. Our agency fee structure is fixed and all-inclusive, regardless of where you live. The cost for our services is the same for a couple in New York as it is for a couple in Paris. The only additional budget you need to plan for is your personal travel expenses (flights and hotels) to and from the United States.
How does my baby get a passport to return home?
Under the U.S. legal principle of jus soli ("right of the soil"), any child born in the United States is automatically a U.S. citizen.
U.S. Passport: Your baby is entitled to a U.S. passport immediately. Nurtured Path assists you with this application process so you can travel home with your newborn.
Home Country Citizenship: Upon returning home, you can work with your local attorneys to register your child’s citizenship in your home country.
How often will I need to visit the United States?
We generally recommend planning for two primary trips:
Embryo Creation: A short trip to your fertility clinic to provide genetic material (sperm/egg retrieval) and create your embryos.
The Delivery: A longer stay for the birth of your child. Optional: Many parents also choose to visit for the embryo transfer or the 20-week anatomy scan to bond with their surrogate, though this is not strictly required.
How long should we expect to stay after the baby is born?
We advise international parents to plan for a stay of approximately 3 to 4 weeks post-delivery. This time is necessary to finalize legal parentage, obtain your baby’s birth certificate, and secure a U.S. passport for travel. While some families may be able to leave sooner depending on the speed of local government offices, it is safer to plan for a month to avoid travel stress.
Does it cost more for international parents?
No. Our agency fee structure is fixed and all-inclusive, regardless of where you live. The cost for our services is the same for a couple in New York as it is for a couple in Paris. The only additional budget you need to plan for is your personal travel expenses (flights and hotels) to and from the United States.
How does my baby get a passport to return home?
Under the U.S. legal principle of jus soli ("right of the soil"), any child born in the United States is automatically a U.S. citizen.
U.S. Passport: Your baby is entitled to a U.S. passport immediately. Nurtured Path assists you with this application process so you can travel home with your newborn.
Home Country Citizenship: Upon returning home, you can work with your local attorneys to register your child’s citizenship in your home country.
SPAR & HIV+ Family Building
Are there extra fees for using the SPAR program?
Nurtured Path does not charge an additional agency fee for managing SPAR journeys. However, there are third-party medical fees associated with the Special Program of Assisted Reproduction (SPAR) itself. These fees cover the specialized "sperm washing" technology, infectious disease testing, and shipping of the cryopreserved samples to your fertility clinic.
How much do the fertility procedures cost?
Costs vary depending on the specific fertility clinic you choose and the type of procedure required (e.g., IVF vs. other insemination methods).
Sperm Preparation: The testing and washing process generally incurs its own set of lab fees.
IVF Procedures: Standard IVF costs apply at your fertility clinic. We recommend budgeting for these medical costs separately from your agency fee. Your case manager will help you get precise quotes from the lab and clinic before you begin.
Do I have to travel to a specific lab for sample collection?
Yes. For the highest safety standards, the initial sperm collection and "washing" usually take place at the specialized SPAR laboratory (typically located in Massachusetts).
The Process: You travel to the lab for a few days to provide your sample.
The Shipment: Once the sample is tested, washed, and cleared of any virus, it is cryopreserved and shipped directly to your IVF clinic (wherever they are located). You do not need to do your IVF cycle at the SPAR lab itself—only the collection.
Are there extra fees for using the SPAR program?
Nurtured Path does not charge an additional agency fee for managing SPAR journeys. However, there are third-party medical fees associated with the Special Program of Assisted Reproduction (SPAR) itself. These fees cover the specialized "sperm washing" technology, infectious disease testing, and shipping of the cryopreserved samples to your fertility clinic.
How much do the fertility procedures cost?
Costs vary depending on the specific fertility clinic you choose and the type of procedure required (e.g., IVF vs. other insemination methods).
Sperm Preparation: The testing and washing process generally incurs its own set of lab fees.
IVF Procedures: Standard IVF costs apply at your fertility clinic. We recommend budgeting for these medical costs separately from your agency fee. Your case manager will help you get precise quotes from the lab and clinic before you begin.
Do I have to travel to a specific lab for sample collection?
Yes. For the highest safety standards, the initial sperm collection and "washing" usually take place at the specialized SPAR laboratory (typically located in Massachusetts).
The Process: You travel to the lab for a few days to provide your sample.
The Shipment: Once the sample is tested, washed, and cleared of any virus, it is cryopreserved and shipped directly to your IVF clinic (wherever they are located). You do not need to do your IVF cycle at the SPAR lab itself—only the collection.
The Surrogacy Process
What is the difference between Gestational and Traditional Surrogacy?
The distinction comes down to genetics.
Gestational Surrogacy: The surrogate carries an embryo created via IVF using the Intended Parents' (or donors') genetic material. She has no genetic link to the child. This is the most common method and the only type of surrogacy Nurtured Path facilitates.
Traditional Surrogacy: The surrogate uses her own egg, making her biologically related to the child.
How do we start our journey with Nurtured Path?
It begins with a conversation. We invite you to schedule a complimentary consultation with our team. During this meeting, we will discuss your story, your family goals, and our program options. It is a no-pressure opportunity to ask questions (legal, financial, or medical) and see if we are the right fit for you.
Do I need a medical reason to use a surrogate?
Yes. At Nurtured Path, we require that Intended Parents have a diagnosed medical necessity for surrogacy (physical or psychological) verified by a treating physician. We do not currently facilitate "social surrogacy" (surrogacy purely as a lifestyle choice). We review every case individually, so if you are unsure if you qualify, please reach out to our intake team.
Can single individuals become parents through your program?
Absolutely. We proudly support Intended Parents of all backgrounds—whether you are a single individual, a same-sex couple, or a heterosexual couple. If you are ready to love and raise a child, we are ready to help you get there.
Will we have a relationship with our surrogate?
We certainly hope so! We view surrogacy as a partnership, not a transaction. We encourage open communication and meaningful relationships. Most parents visit their surrogate in her hometown at least once during the pregnancy to bond, meet her family, and see where their child is growing.
Where will the baby be born?
Your surrogate will deliver at a hospital near her home, typically with the OB/GYN she knows and trusts. Our legal and insurance teams vet these locations to ensure they are equipped to handle the birth. As Intended Parents, you will travel to her location for the delivery. Hospital policies vary, but we advocate for you to be present in the delivery room and to have a private room for you and the baby immediately after birth.
How does the legal process work?
Our legal team manages the entire landscape to secure your parental rights.
Before Birth: We match you with a surrogate in a state with favorable laws. We then negotiate the carrier contract and, in most cases, secure a "Pre-Birth Order" that declares you the legal parents before the baby arrives.
After Birth: Depending on the state, we finalize any remaining steps, such as Voluntary Acknowledgments of Paternity or judgments, to ensure your names are legally on the birth certificate.
Costs
How much money do I save if I don’t use an agency?
If you choose an independent journey (Indy), you typically save the cost of the agency management fee—often between $20,000 and $40,000. However, it is important to remember that all other costs remain the same (surrogate compensation, IVF procedures, insurance, and legal fees).
What is the trade-off of going independent?
The trade-off is time and expertise. Without an agency, you effectively become the project manager of your own journey. You are responsible for vetting the surrogate, coordinating appointments between multiple clinics, managing escrow accounts, and finding qualified legal counsel. Many parents find that the stress and workload of managing these logistics outweigh the financial savings.
Cancer Survivor
Do I have to wait until my cancer treatment is finished to apply?
Your health and long-term recovery are our top priority. While every treatment plan is different, we generally recommend that you be in a place where you can focus mentally and emotionally on the future. We encourage you to fill out our parent inquiry form so we can have a private, compassionate conversation about your specific timeline and the best path forward.
Do you have experience working with cancer survivors?
Yes, frequently. A significant portion of our Intended Parents come to surrogacy following a medical diagnosis, including cancer. We understand the complex emotions that come with this transition—from the relief of recovery to the grief of fertility changes. We are here to bridge that gap, offering not just logistical management but a supportive community of other parents who have walked a similar path.
International Intended Parents
How often will I need to visit the United States?
We generally recommend planning for two primary trips:
Embryo Creation: A short trip to your fertility clinic to provide genetic material (sperm/egg retrieval) and create your embryos.
The Delivery: A longer stay for the birth of your child. Optional: Many parents also choose to visit for the embryo transfer or the 20-week anatomy scan to bond with their surrogate, though this is not strictly required.
How long should we expect to stay after the baby is born?
We advise international parents to plan for a stay of approximately 3 to 4 weeks post-delivery. This time is necessary to finalize legal parentage, obtain your baby’s birth certificate, and secure a U.S. passport for travel. While some families may be able to leave sooner depending on the speed of local government offices, it is safer to plan for a month to avoid travel stress.
Does it cost more for international parents?
No. Our agency fee structure is fixed and all-inclusive, regardless of where you live. The cost for our services is the same for a couple in New York as it is for a couple in Paris. The only additional budget you need to plan for is your personal travel expenses (flights and hotels) to and from the United States.
How does my baby get a passport to return home?
Under the U.S. legal principle of jus soli ("right of the soil"), any child born in the United States is automatically a U.S. citizen.
U.S. Passport: Your baby is entitled to a U.S. passport immediately. Nurtured Path assists you with this application process so you can travel home with your newborn.
Home Country Citizenship: Upon returning home, you can work with your local attorneys to register your child’s citizenship in your home country.
SPAR & HIV+ Family Building
Are there extra fees for using the SPAR program?
Nurtured Path does not charge an additional agency fee for managing SPAR journeys. However, there are third-party medical fees associated with the Special Program of Assisted Reproduction (SPAR) itself. These fees cover the specialized "sperm washing" technology, infectious disease testing, and shipping of the cryopreserved samples to your fertility clinic.
How much do the fertility procedures cost?
Costs vary depending on the specific fertility clinic you choose and the type of procedure required (e.g., IVF vs. other insemination methods).
Sperm Preparation: The testing and washing process generally incurs its own set of lab fees.
IVF Procedures: Standard IVF costs apply at your fertility clinic. We recommend budgeting for these medical costs separately from your agency fee. Your case manager will help you get precise quotes from the lab and clinic before you begin.
Do I have to travel to a specific lab for sample collection?
Yes. For the highest safety standards, the initial sperm collection and "washing" usually take place at the specialized SPAR laboratory (typically located in Massachusetts).
The Process: You travel to the lab for a few days to provide your sample.
The Shipment: Once the sample is tested, washed, and cleared of any virus, it is cryopreserved and shipped directly to your IVF clinic (wherever they are located). You do not need to do your IVF cycle at the SPAR lab itself—only the collection.
The Surrogacy Process
What is the difference between Gestational and Traditional Surrogacy?
The distinction comes down to genetics.
Gestational Surrogacy: The surrogate carries an embryo created via IVF using the Intended Parents' (or donors') genetic material. She has no genetic link to the child. This is the most common method and the only type of surrogacy Nurtured Path facilitates.
Traditional Surrogacy: The surrogate uses her own egg, making her biologically related to the child.
How do we start our journey with Nurtured Path?
It begins with a conversation. We invite you to schedule a complimentary consultation with our team. During this meeting, we will discuss your story, your family goals, and our program options. It is a no-pressure opportunity to ask questions (legal, financial, or medical) and see if we are the right fit for you.
Do I need a medical reason to use a surrogate?
Yes. At Nurtured Path, we require that Intended Parents have a diagnosed medical necessity for surrogacy (physical or psychological) verified by a treating physician. We do not currently facilitate "social surrogacy" (surrogacy purely as a lifestyle choice). We review every case individually, so if you are unsure if you qualify, please reach out to our intake team.
Can single individuals become parents through your program?
Absolutely. We proudly support Intended Parents of all backgrounds—whether you are a single individual, a same-sex couple, or a heterosexual couple. If you are ready to love and raise a child, we are ready to help you get there.
Will we have a relationship with our surrogate?
We certainly hope so! We view surrogacy as a partnership, not a transaction. We encourage open communication and meaningful relationships. Most parents visit their surrogate in her hometown at least once during the pregnancy to bond, meet her family, and see where their child is growing.
Where will the baby be born?
Your surrogate will deliver at a hospital near her home, typically with the OB/GYN she knows and trusts. Our legal and insurance teams vet these locations to ensure they are equipped to handle the birth. As Intended Parents, you will travel to her location for the delivery. Hospital policies vary, but we advocate for you to be present in the delivery room and to have a private room for you and the baby immediately after birth.
How does the legal process work?
Our legal team manages the entire landscape to secure your parental rights.
Before Birth: We match you with a surrogate in a state with favorable laws. We then negotiate the carrier contract and, in most cases, secure a "Pre-Birth Order" that declares you the legal parents before the baby arrives.
After Birth: Depending on the state, we finalize any remaining steps, such as Voluntary Acknowledgments of Paternity or judgments, to ensure your names are legally on the birth certificate.
Costs
How much money do I save if I don’t use an agency?
If you choose an independent journey (Indy), you typically save the cost of the agency management fee—often between $20,000 and $40,000. However, it is important to remember that all other costs remain the same (surrogate compensation, IVF procedures, insurance, and legal fees).
What is the trade-off of going independent?
The trade-off is time and expertise. Without an agency, you effectively become the project manager of your own journey. You are responsible for vetting the surrogate, coordinating appointments between multiple clinics, managing escrow accounts, and finding qualified legal counsel. Many parents find that the stress and workload of managing these logistics outweigh the financial savings.
Cancer Survivor
Do I have to wait until my cancer treatment is finished to apply?
Your health and long-term recovery are our top priority. While every treatment plan is different, we generally recommend that you be in a place where you can focus mentally and emotionally on the future. We encourage you to fill out our parent inquiry form so we can have a private, compassionate conversation about your specific timeline and the best path forward.
Do you have experience working with cancer survivors?
Yes, frequently. A significant portion of our Intended Parents come to surrogacy following a medical diagnosis, including cancer. We understand the complex emotions that come with this transition—from the relief of recovery to the grief of fertility changes. We are here to bridge that gap, offering not just logistical management but a supportive community of other parents who have walked a similar path.
International Intended Parents
How often will I need to visit the United States?
We generally recommend planning for two primary trips:
Embryo Creation: A short trip to your fertility clinic to provide genetic material (sperm/egg retrieval) and create your embryos.
The Delivery: A longer stay for the birth of your child. Optional: Many parents also choose to visit for the embryo transfer or the 20-week anatomy scan to bond with their surrogate, though this is not strictly required.
How long should we expect to stay after the baby is born?
We advise international parents to plan for a stay of approximately 3 to 4 weeks post-delivery. This time is necessary to finalize legal parentage, obtain your baby’s birth certificate, and secure a U.S. passport for travel. While some families may be able to leave sooner depending on the speed of local government offices, it is safer to plan for a month to avoid travel stress.
Does it cost more for international parents?
No. Our agency fee structure is fixed and all-inclusive, regardless of where you live. The cost for our services is the same for a couple in New York as it is for a couple in Paris. The only additional budget you need to plan for is your personal travel expenses (flights and hotels) to and from the United States.
How does my baby get a passport to return home?
Under the U.S. legal principle of jus soli ("right of the soil"), any child born in the United States is automatically a U.S. citizen.
U.S. Passport: Your baby is entitled to a U.S. passport immediately. Nurtured Path assists you with this application process so you can travel home with your newborn.
Home Country Citizenship: Upon returning home, you can work with your local attorneys to register your child’s citizenship in your home country.
SPAR & HIV+ Family Building
Are there extra fees for using the SPAR program?
Nurtured Path does not charge an additional agency fee for managing SPAR journeys. However, there are third-party medical fees associated with the Special Program of Assisted Reproduction (SPAR) itself. These fees cover the specialized "sperm washing" technology, infectious disease testing, and shipping of the cryopreserved samples to your fertility clinic.
How much do the fertility procedures cost?
Costs vary depending on the specific fertility clinic you choose and the type of procedure required (e.g., IVF vs. other insemination methods).
Sperm Preparation: The testing and washing process generally incurs its own set of lab fees.
IVF Procedures: Standard IVF costs apply at your fertility clinic. We recommend budgeting for these medical costs separately from your agency fee. Your case manager will help you get precise quotes from the lab and clinic before you begin.
Do I have to travel to a specific lab for sample collection?
Yes. For the highest safety standards, the initial sperm collection and "washing" usually take place at the specialized SPAR laboratory (typically located in Massachusetts).
The Process: You travel to the lab for a few days to provide your sample.
The Shipment: Once the sample is tested, washed, and cleared of any virus, it is cryopreserved and shipped directly to your IVF clinic (wherever they are located). You do not need to do your IVF cycle at the SPAR lab itself—only the collection.
Our Blogs
Insights for Your Journey
Insights for Your Journey
Honest stories, expert guides, and clear answers for every step of the path.
Honest stories, expert guides, and clear answers for every step of the path.
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Mom, Boss, Surrogate: How to Balance the Journey with a Full-Time Job
Worried about how surrogacy fits into your busy 9-to-5 life? You aren't alone. Discover how flexible appointments, lost wage protection, and concierge support make it possible to maintain your career while carrying a miracle.
Lifestyle
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Mom, Boss, Surrogate: How to Balance the Journey with a Full-Time Job
Worried about how surrogacy fits into your busy 9-to-5 life? You aren't alone. Discover how flexible appointments, lost wage protection, and concierge support make it possible to maintain your career while carrying a miracle.
Lifestyle
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Mom, Boss, Surrogate: How to Balance the Journey with a Full-Time Job
Worried about how surrogacy fits into your busy 9-to-5 life? You aren't alone. Discover how flexible appointments, lost wage protection, and concierge support make it possible to maintain your career while carrying a miracle.
Guides
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Breaking Down the $65K: A Transparent Guide to Base Pay vs. Allowances
We believe financial transparency is the foundation of trust. In this guide, we break down exactly how a $65,000+ compensation package is calculated - separating your guaranteed base salary from the allowances designed to support your pregnancy lifestyle.
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Breaking Down the $65K: A Transparent Guide to Base Pay vs. Allowances
We believe financial transparency is the foundation of trust. In this guide, we break down exactly how a $65,000+ compensation package is calculated - separating your guaranteed base salary from the allowances designed to support your pregnancy lifestyle.
Guides
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10
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Breaking Down the $65K: A Transparent Guide to Base Pay vs. Allowances
We believe financial transparency is the foundation of trust. In this guide, we break down exactly how a $65,000+ compensation package is calculated - separating your guaranteed base salary from the allowances designed to support your pregnancy lifestyle.
Insights
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The Hidden Costs of In-House Sourcing: When to Build vs. When to Partner
Is your internal recruitment team actually saving you money? We break down the true cost of acquisition (CAC), the impact of "intake fatigue," and why top agencies are shifting to a partnership model to stabilize their margins.
Insights
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14
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The Hidden Costs of In-House Sourcing: When to Build vs. When to Partner
Is your internal recruitment team actually saving you money? We break down the true cost of acquisition (CAC), the impact of "intake fatigue," and why top agencies are shifting to a partnership model to stabilize their margins.
Insights
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14
MIN READ
The Hidden Costs of In-House Sourcing: When to Build vs. When to Partner
Is your internal recruitment team actually saving you money? We break down the true cost of acquisition (CAC), the impact of "intake fatigue," and why top agencies are shifting to a partnership model to stabilize their margins.
Lifestyle
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12
MIN READ
Mom, Boss, Surrogate: How to Balance the Journey with a Full-Time Job
Worried about how surrogacy fits into your busy 9-to-5 life? You aren't alone. Discover how flexible appointments, lost wage protection, and concierge support make it possible to maintain your career while carrying a miracle.
Guides
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10
MIN READ
Breaking Down the $65K: A Transparent Guide to Base Pay vs. Allowances
We believe financial transparency is the foundation of trust. In this guide, we break down exactly how a $65,000+ compensation package is calculated - separating your guaranteed base salary from the allowances designed to support your pregnancy lifestyle.
Insights
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14
MIN READ
The Hidden Costs of In-House Sourcing: When to Build vs. When to Partner
Is your internal recruitment team actually saving you money? We break down the true cost of acquisition (CAC), the impact of "intake fatigue," and why top agencies are shifting to a partnership model to stabilize their margins.
The Surrogate Journey
Become a Surrogate
Discover the profound joy of bringing a new life into the world. Create a legacy of kindness while securing a brighter future for your own family.
Discover the profound joy of bringing a new life into the world. Create a legacy of kindness while securing a brighter future for your own family.
The Surrogate Journey
Become a Surrogate
Discover the profound joy of bringing a new life into the world. Create a legacy of kindness while securing a brighter future for your own family.
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Partner With Us
Imagine an agency where growth feels effortless and the pipeline never runs dry. Reclaim your time and focus entirely on building families.
Imagine an agency where growth feels effortless and the pipeline never runs dry. Reclaim your time and focus entirely on building families.
Agency & Parent Solutions
Partner With Us
Imagine an agency where growth feels effortless and the pipeline never runs dry. Reclaim your time and focus entirely on building families.
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Disclaimer: Nurtured Path is a surrogate sourcing partner and does not provide legal or medical advice.
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2026
Nurtured Path
All rights reserved.
Precision Meets Purpose.
For Partners
Disclaimer: Nurtured Path is a surrogate sourcing partner and does not provide legal or medical advice.
©
2026
Nurtured Path
All rights reserved.
Precision Meets Purpose.
For Partners
Disclaimer: Nurtured Path is a surrogate sourcing partner and does not provide legal or medical advice.
©
2026
Nurtured Path
All rights reserved.
Precision Meets Purpose.
For Partners
Disclaimer: Nurtured Path is a surrogate sourcing partner and does not provide legal or medical advice.
©
2026
Nurtured Path
All rights reserved.